Never rinse a coin over the kitchen disposal. Never tick off an auction company that is selling your coins. Never put a slab in your pocket along with a 2X2 with staples. Never offer to help someone sort a collection without knowing how large it is. Never buy a coin you do not understand. Walk away, learn and go back with a better understanding.
Been there, done that. Not to mention, you seldom get any gratitude, more often complaints because you told them the truth.