Maybe that is not much of a sellers "responsibility". Maybe a seller has kids of their own to babysit. Maybe a seller takes into consideration that a person, bidding on that much is responsible enough to take appropriate actions before taking any sort of medications/drugs. Maybe a seller (like me) don't want to deal with people who don't want to honor a bid as some of us think it is a WASTE of time and some of us don't have much of it. Maybe he should just man-up to his doing and just pay up and learn from it!