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<p>[QUOTE="lordmarcovan, post: 2521040, member: 10461"]I agree. In this situation, there is no ethical obligation whatsoever upon the buyer to recompense the seller, especially after such a long time has elapsed.</p><p><br /></p><p>Now, if you unknowingly cherrypick someone you have a good and long-lasting relationship with, you may, <i>at your discretion</i>, "throw him or her a crumb" (i.e., give a modest thank you gift). I have both given and received these kinds of friendly "sweetener" gestures after the fact. It's a nice courtesy. But totally voluntary on the part of the one who did the cherrypicking.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Case in point:</b> when Rich Sayre (aka "Cladiator" on CU) bought a holed 1806 Draped Bust half from me for $75 in 2005, neither he nor I realized it was a previously undiscovered Overton Variety. When he listed it on eBay later, it sold for $1,801. It became the <a href="http://www.pdxcoinclub.org/convention2005/bustHalf.html" target="_blank" class="externalLink ProxyLink" data-proxy-href="http://www.pdxcoinclub.org/convention2005/bustHalf.html" rel="nofollow">1806 Overton-129 Discovery Coin</a>, and, if you look at that article I just linked, at least one expert placed a $20,000 value on it at the time! </p><p><br /></p><p>Was I upset that such a rarity unknowingly passed through my hands? Not really. Rich didn't know he was cherrypicking me. And had two specialists not seen the coin on eBay and got into a bidding war over it, neither of us would have been the wiser. Rich had no ethical obligation to me. But he bought me a copy of the Overton book and signed it and had the specialists who discovered the O-129 sign it as well. I later signed it, too, so all of the owners in that coin's pedigree signed that book.</p><p><br /></p><p>That gesture by Rich was exactly the sort of thing I'm talking about. He didn't owe me anything at all, but gave me a thoughtful gift anyway.[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>
[QUOTE="lordmarcovan, post: 2521040, member: 10461"]I agree. In this situation, there is no ethical obligation whatsoever upon the buyer to recompense the seller, especially after such a long time has elapsed. Now, if you unknowingly cherrypick someone you have a good and long-lasting relationship with, you may, [I]at your discretion[/I], "throw him or her a crumb" (i.e., give a modest thank you gift). I have both given and received these kinds of friendly "sweetener" gestures after the fact. It's a nice courtesy. But totally voluntary on the part of the one who did the cherrypicking. [B]Case in point:[/B] when Rich Sayre (aka "Cladiator" on CU) bought a holed 1806 Draped Bust half from me for $75 in 2005, neither he nor I realized it was a previously undiscovered Overton Variety. When he listed it on eBay later, it sold for $1,801. It became the [URL='http://www.pdxcoinclub.org/convention2005/bustHalf.html']1806 Overton-129 Discovery Coin[/URL], and, if you look at that article I just linked, at least one expert placed a $20,000 value on it at the time! Was I upset that such a rarity unknowingly passed through my hands? Not really. Rich didn't know he was cherrypicking me. And had two specialists not seen the coin on eBay and got into a bidding war over it, neither of us would have been the wiser. Rich had no ethical obligation to me. But he bought me a copy of the Overton book and signed it and had the specialists who discovered the O-129 sign it as well. I later signed it, too, so all of the owners in that coin's pedigree signed that book. That gesture by Rich was exactly the sort of thing I'm talking about. He didn't owe me anything at all, but gave me a thoughtful gift anyway.[/QUOTE]
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