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<p>[QUOTE=&quot;coinman0456, post: 642113, member: 18177&quot;]I have absolutely no intention of bringing this situation to court. The legal letters , are to act as a firm reminder of his responsibility. I am keenly aware of how things, in a blink of an eye, can go swirling out of control for folks, as is with the impact this situation has caused me, and perhaps what initiated this broken wheel. Having said that, it would have had a far less negative impact, had the buyer simply been upfront with me, but that was not the case. It is each of our responsibility to make certain our bank accounts are sufficient to cover checks written. He has a responsibility to me, not the other way around. That seems to be a big misunderstanding or deliberate oversight by irresponsible individuals.&nbsp; There is a solution to every problem, it&#039;s his to propose his, and not for me to solicit. If he truly is honorable, he will eventually contact me, albeit a little prodding may be required. Rest assured, if and when that happens, just as I made notification to CT members of this situation, I will too of his albeit late acknowledgement , but also of any wholehearted attempt to make things right.</p><p><br /></p><p>Forgive me if I seem to be reluctant to contact him by telephone after numerous e-mails, with no reply. If his computer crashed , as it very well may have, or his services cutoff, I&#039;m certain he can find alternative services to respond. I simply expect him to pick up those pieces and take action he knows already is required.</p><p><br /></p><p>There are those that say, well he may be embarrassed. Rightly so, but that is also no excuse for not taking responsibility for his shortcoming, it&#039;s not mine to push him into&nbsp; action with a telephone call. A polite but strong written reminder will suffice and be more effective. Just as the banks do, when and if any of you have had the experience&nbsp; of an overdraft on your bank account.</p><p><br /></p><p>When and if he feels strong enough, to put pride aside, perhaps he will contact me.</p><p>I sincerely do appreciate all your suggestions, and I have taken full consideration of them. First, lets hope the man is physically ok, the rest can be worked out. But he has to reach out to me, not the other way around.</p><p><br /></p><p>Thanks for all your support and guidance.</p><p><br /></p><p>Tom.[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>

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