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<p>[QUOTE=&quot;GDJMSP, post: 769743, member: 112&quot;]OK look, I&#039;ve about had it with this nonsense. Here we have another perfectly good thread and this crap has to surface yet again. But let me explain.</p><p><br /></p><p>Krispy - your comment was harmless. It <b>IS</b> an oxymoron. I find no fault or anything wrong with what you said.</p><p><br /></p><p>BNB - as I said, it is an oxymoron. But here&#039;s a large part of the problem. I have a friend who signs all of his emails with a signature line that goes something like this - if you look for the good in people, you will find it. </p><p><br /></p><p>However, the reverse is also true. If you look for the bad in people, you will find it. And that&#039;s what you seem to do BNB. No matter what somebody says to you, you get all defensive about it. You just have to read it in such a way as to think that they are knocking you, attacking you, insulting you or something along those lines. You absolutely cannot take a comment for what it is.</p><p><br /></p><p>Yeah I know, you <u>have</u> had issues with some here. And in those cases I have even stuck up for you. But you even do the same thing with me. You take just about everything that I say to you in exactly the opposite way that it is intended. Never once have I attacked you, knocked you or insulted you. I have however on many occasions offered you well thought out constructive criticism, and sometimes just plain old tips, that will help you become better at this hobby. But almost without exception you choose, and strees that, <b><u>choose</u></b> to take it that I am insulting you or attacking you in some way. You do it - not me. One of these days you have got to realize that, that is YOUR choice !</p><p><br /></p><p>Do yourself a favor - get over it. As my friend says - if you look for the good in people, you WILL find it.</p><p><br /></p><p>And Dave, while I understand that what you are saying has good intentions behind it - it doesn&#039;t help. That goes for everybody. All it does is to fan the flames. </p><p><br /></p><p>So here&#039;s the deal. From now on in any thread, ANY THREAD, statements posted by ANYBODY about ANYBODY that I find to be deliberately worded to be argumentative or insulting - those statements are going to be deleted and the person making them is going to get an infraction. Same goes for those who IMO fan the flames. And infraction points&nbsp; add up. Get enough and you are temporarily banned. Get more after that and you are gone forever - forever.</p><p><br /></p><p>I&#039;m sick and tired of this. You all, every damn one of you know better. And I&#039;m <b>&amp;^%$#@</b> ! And me being <b>&amp;^%$#@</b> is absolutely not a good thing. You are not a bunch of school children. But if you continue to insist on acting like a bunch of school children then I will damn well treat you that way.</p><p><br /></p><p>This stops here and now. And you better believe I mean it.[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>

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