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<p>[QUOTE=&quot;oz_in_ohio, post: 3215035, member: 89534&quot;]Hi Valpobeginner... Please read what i have to say slowly and carefully...No harm is meany but i am a collector like you are and have been in your situation...</p><p>******************************************************</p><p><span style="color: #ff4d4d"><b>Dont worry about her or what she thinks</b></span>...Hasn&#039;t she heard of a microwave??? Tell her that can be used for heating up cold meals when you arrive home. Maybe you can enlighten her on this discovery for the kitchen. </p><p><br /></p><p>Secondly, you have the interest of collecting, i do assume you dont just limit yourself to one area as there must be other collectibles you never mentioned...Personally i do have some coins , rare banknotes and war medals but my true love in collecting is&nbsp; Hard Rock Cafe Pins and art animation ( such as Warner brothers , Hanna Barbera, Walter Lantz and Elzie Crisler Segar and Disney<i> ) ..</i>.. The banknotes and coins are just a way to fund my hobby as i dont always have enough cash. My kids are not interested like most kids these days so i simply buy and sell for a hobby....I am sure you don&#039;t like your wife getting pedicures, manicures and her hair done as that is a waste of money on your thinking as well..The polish wears away , nails grow back and the hair loses its style when washed, so in the long run it was a complete waste of money..... So maybe when she leans towards you with the thoughts of accepting your collecting, then you can lean to her and stop her going to get hair and nails done. You have made it clear she hates pawn shops so i dont think she will bend in your favor. ..... I know this from 1st hand as my 1st wife thought my stamps were just sticky pieces of paper and only good for placing on packages and letters but when i sold&nbsp; a couple of dozen of them as she wanted a new car, i told her that as she does not like my stamps she can find her own money for her car...I admit that was nasty but i had to teach her a lesson on respecting other peoples likes and dislikes. </p><p><br /></p><p>YOU ARE NOT TORN BETWEEN THE 2....TELL HER TO GIVE UP HER LIKES AND YOU WILL GIVE UP YOURS - BUT IF YOU SEE HER COME HOME WITH STUFF THAT YOU DONT LIKE, THEN YOU CAN GO BACK TO THE PAWN SHOP AND BUY WHAT YOU LIKE , WHEN YOU LIKE AND IF YOU LIKE.</p><p><br /></p><p>&nbsp;Also dont let her pick out the rugs, carpets, paint for walls, furniture etc etc etc as you have to like it as well.&nbsp; You know how we hubbys just agree to them to keep them happy? Sort of saying like yes dear , that wont be on anymore if she cant let you look in pawn shops....It is like how the old saying goes...What is good for the goose is good for the gander....</p><p><br /></p><p>i think all collectibles are better than some women....THE COLLECTIBLES SIMPLY DONT ANSWER BACK , KEEP THEIR OPINIONS TO THEMSELVES AND APPRECIATE WITH AGE JUST LIKE GOOD WINE. </p><p><br /></p><p>Notice i did not have to use any bad language and got my point across to you</p><p>very clearly????</p><p><br /></p><p>Lastly collecting nut , if you want to contact me in an IM, please feel free to do so...</p><p><br /></p><p>I hope i have helped you here.</p><p><br /></p><p><u><span style="color: #ff0000"><b>NOTE....THIS IS TOWARDS ALL COLLECTIBLES WHICH INCLUDES NUMISMATICS</b></span></u></p><p><br /></p><p>Have a nice day...OIO[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>

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