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<p>[QUOTE=&quot;John Anthony, post: 1672552, member: 42773&quot;]The question is WHY do you feel guilty? I&#039;m guessing it&#039;s not because of what you spend on coins, but rather that you know your wife would disapprove, and like all good-hearted men, you care about your wife&#039;s feelings. So you (and others) hide things, and of course, secrecy will also make you feel guilty in a healthy relationship. I tried it a few times over other issues, and felt miserable.</p><p><br /></p><p>I don&#039;t know you, or your wife, or your relationship, but judging ONLY on the information I have, if I were you I would say to my wife, &quot;Look darling, I have a hobby I love and I&#039;m going to spend money on it. I&#039;ve worked all my life and I deserve it. Your frugality is your decision - you can&#039;t make it for me. If you don&#039;t like it, you&#039;ll just have to find a way to deal. I&#039;m tired of being secretive, and not enjoying my recreation.&quot;[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>

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