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<p>[QUOTE=&quot;Bones-65, post: 8249878, member: 136030&quot;]Perception, is everything, here again!</p><p>What someone means (intentions), and what someone interprets of another&#039;s intentions, is their own perception!</p><p>Our perception of another most times carries judgement too.</p><p>Lets say I&#039;m upset about an ongoing issue, and I&#039;m pretty much down, the world&#039;s gone to crap, my thinking is likely going to be negative, so my perception of things others say or do will be of a negative view, and if there is judgement in that perception then it carries over to judgement of &quot;Heart Motive&quot; (intent) of the other person!</p><p>Perception is everything but the reason its often not correct is because its based on the state of mind of each one of us.</p><p>If I&#039;m on top of the world, just won the lottery, then my perception of things is influenced by the uplifted positive attitude of my state of mind.</p><p>Perception with judgment!</p><p>This is dangerous, this is to be left up to our creator!</p><p>Judgement is when we think/believe we know the heart motives (intent) of another.</p><p>Lets say I post a forum comment, in my heart I had no bad or negative intent, but someone in a negative state of mind, reads between the lines because they believe the world is out to get them and takes offense to what I wrote.</p><p>Perception is everything (to that person), and in most cases it carries with it &quot;Judgement&quot;</p><p>Judgement is judgement.</p><p>My actual intend, your actual intent is really unknown, is that neighbor of yours being nice to you, because its in his heart to be nice, or is he buttering you up because he wants something? We cannot actually know what another&#039;s intentions really our, at best we have are perceptions of them or their motives.</p><p>I have a sister-n-law, as hard as my wife tries to help her she thinks my wife is trying to in some way to emotionally hurt her, even YEARS later!</p><p>Perception, it is everything (to ourselves), its most times wrong, and its ALWAYS wrong if it carries with it &quot;Judgement&quot; (it almost always does, that person is so annoying, I wish they&#039;d vapor lock, I hope their dog dies, die&#039;s in a car crash, he deserved his wife slapping him in the mouth with divorce papers etc.. judgement.)</p><p>Thanks for your input, its very interesting, but it&#039;ll probably be considered out of context, but its very interesting.</p><p><br /></p><p>What Color Lenses we put on changes &#039;Our&#039; perception of things around use, so our perception is often times not based in truth.</p><p>[MEDIA=youtube]sJ8mlC3mWW4[/MEDIA][/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>

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