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<p>[QUOTE="1865King, post: 6653035, member: 103207"]You didn't say why your grandmother went into a nursing home. So like Mountain Man said I hope you at least asked your grandmother what she wants to do with them. They are her property!!! If she went into a nursing home because she has dementia or something similar then it would fall on her children to decide what to do. If they want you to figure it out great but, be careful with what you do or say. The sets have value which I think you already know. Do not assume no family member has any interest in them at all. That's a quick way to start a family fight over something that not worth damaging family relationships over. Even if there is nothing rare in any of the sets there is an easy way to handle the situation. Assuming there are no varieties of value in the sets go on line and find out what they are selling for. Knock off about 40% from the sell price and that would give you an idea of what they could be sold for. The silver coins would be bought at melt or little over melt so that's what they're worth. </p><p><br /></p><p>Now what do you do. I'm going to only tell you what I would do. Be very honest about how you came up with the value. Also tell them that just because something looks nice or in a case doesn't mean it's worth much. </p><p><br /></p><p>Lets assume your grandmother had 4 children. Lets also assume she had 20 sets (trying to keep the math simple). Assuming you could divide the sets by value then simply divide the sets equally by 4. Very simple and there shouldn't be any issues as long as you are honest with you valuation. </p><p><br /></p><p>Personal advise, I would like to assume family members get along pretty good but, in some cases that not true. By doing what I said above is about as fair as you can be. Also you will find out very fast the people that are interested in them and those that aren't. If no one is interested in them than either offer them the price you came up with and then sell them yourself or keep them. You may even find that some of your family members know your interested in coins and they may just say You Keep Them, no worries! </p><p><br /></p><p>However, if Grandma is mentally sound do not do anything without her knowing it will turn out bad for you. She may tell you to sell everything and take everyone out for a nice dinner on her. When people get to the point of going into a nursing home and they find out family members are picking through their stuff like they're already dead it can be devastating for them. I've seen where families get ripped apart for really stupid reasons and they never recover.[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>
[QUOTE="1865King, post: 6653035, member: 103207"]You didn't say why your grandmother went into a nursing home. So like Mountain Man said I hope you at least asked your grandmother what she wants to do with them. They are her property!!! If she went into a nursing home because she has dementia or something similar then it would fall on her children to decide what to do. If they want you to figure it out great but, be careful with what you do or say. The sets have value which I think you already know. Do not assume no family member has any interest in them at all. That's a quick way to start a family fight over something that not worth damaging family relationships over. Even if there is nothing rare in any of the sets there is an easy way to handle the situation. Assuming there are no varieties of value in the sets go on line and find out what they are selling for. Knock off about 40% from the sell price and that would give you an idea of what they could be sold for. The silver coins would be bought at melt or little over melt so that's what they're worth. Now what do you do. I'm going to only tell you what I would do. Be very honest about how you came up with the value. Also tell them that just because something looks nice or in a case doesn't mean it's worth much. Lets assume your grandmother had 4 children. Lets also assume she had 20 sets (trying to keep the math simple). Assuming you could divide the sets by value then simply divide the sets equally by 4. Very simple and there shouldn't be any issues as long as you are honest with you valuation. Personal advise, I would like to assume family members get along pretty good but, in some cases that not true. By doing what I said above is about as fair as you can be. Also you will find out very fast the people that are interested in them and those that aren't. If no one is interested in them than either offer them the price you came up with and then sell them yourself or keep them. You may even find that some of your family members know your interested in coins and they may just say You Keep Them, no worries! However, if Grandma is mentally sound do not do anything without her knowing it will turn out bad for you. She may tell you to sell everything and take everyone out for a nice dinner on her. When people get to the point of going into a nursing home and they find out family members are picking through their stuff like they're already dead it can be devastating for them. I've seen where families get ripped apart for really stupid reasons and they never recover.[/QUOTE]
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