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<p>[QUOTE="umtrr-author, post: 143910, member: 5719"]I am very lucky in that my local coin club is exceptionally welcoming to new (or in my case, returning) collectors. I find myself spending a lot of time listening to what they have to say, as to a person they know more than I do.</p><p><br /></p><p>I understand where you are coming from though. Friendship is usually built on some sort of common interests, but that's not the whole story. There is something to be said for "chemistry" between people as well; impossible to explain. It's not unlike dating, in fact... you have to see if you get along and go from there. </p><p><br /></p><p>I think it's much more difficult to begin and keep up friendships in what seems to have become a much more complex and time consuming world. Long work hours and other factors (some of which may be subject to debate) lead to less time for the real human friendship factor. A few years ago there was an interesting book on this subject called "Bowling Alone." At least it makes me feel less unique in my isolation.</p><p><br /></p><p>As great as this group is, it's not a complete substitute for that "in person" communication that I think we all need. That's why I will be pleased to attend the local meetings when they start up again after the summer![/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>
[QUOTE="umtrr-author, post: 143910, member: 5719"]I am very lucky in that my local coin club is exceptionally welcoming to new (or in my case, returning) collectors. I find myself spending a lot of time listening to what they have to say, as to a person they know more than I do. I understand where you are coming from though. Friendship is usually built on some sort of common interests, but that's not the whole story. There is something to be said for "chemistry" between people as well; impossible to explain. It's not unlike dating, in fact... you have to see if you get along and go from there. I think it's much more difficult to begin and keep up friendships in what seems to have become a much more complex and time consuming world. Long work hours and other factors (some of which may be subject to debate) lead to less time for the real human friendship factor. A few years ago there was an interesting book on this subject called "Bowling Alone." At least it makes me feel less unique in my isolation. As great as this group is, it's not a complete substitute for that "in person" communication that I think we all need. That's why I will be pleased to attend the local meetings when they start up again after the summer![/QUOTE]
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