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<p>[QUOTE=&quot;fretboard, post: 1428418, member: 19765&quot;]Sorry to hear about your ex&#039;s problems.&nbsp; Trust me, I went through a similar issue years ago and I can feel the stress in your posts.&nbsp; I suggest you take care of yourself otherwise you&#039;re gonna lose too much $$ and then your gonna kick yourself in the bum later.&nbsp; It may be better just to focus on yourself and stay away from her as much as possible.&nbsp; I know you want to help her and that&#039;s fine, you can still help her.&nbsp; I&#039;m just sayin&#039;, don&#039;t throw her a life preserver just yet.&nbsp; Wait until her car payment is due and be ready to help.&nbsp; Let&#039;s say you buy her a $1000 car, she will still have the car payment to make and you will still be there for her to ask for help.&nbsp; It just sounds like she&#039;s already worked you over so it&#039;s time to stop treating her like it&#039;s alright.&nbsp; Help her when she needs it.&nbsp; By buying her a $1000 car you&#039;re solving or trying to solve her problem.&nbsp; My ex left a trail everywhere she went and your ex doesn&#039;t sound any different.&nbsp; good luck, whatever you decide.[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>

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