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<p>[QUOTE="ewomack, post: 2339024, member: 15588"]I've experienced an absolute continuum of dealer dispositions. From the nicest people I've ever met to the biggest jerks one could ever imagine. Be yourself and gauge whether the dealer is treating you fairly. Some can be a little temperamental, but sometimes it takes a little patience and perseverance.</p><p><br /></p><p>For example, years ago I used to frequent a coin shop near where I worked and I got to know the dealer a little bit. He was impressed that I could read Arabic coins and he didn't believe me when I told him some modern Mexican coins still contain silver, until he looked it up. He once let me hold a 1798 silver dollar and I could finally steal a glance at the edge lettering, which I had never seen in person. </p><p><br /></p><p>So far so good. </p><p><br /></p><p>Later, I entered his shop and he looked at me sternly and said "I saw you on the bus yesterday and I said hello to you but you didn't say hello back. What was that about?" I honestly didn't remember seeing him and so said "I didn't see you" and he snapped back "no, no, you saw me alright." I just apologized and ran out of the store. </p><p><br /></p><p>After a decent amount of time passed, I went back to the store and he greeted me in an extremely friendly manner and so I thought, ok, chock it up to a fluke. Then when I started looking around he said "do you know what you want?" I said I was looking for a full red Lincoln. He opened a book and shoved it in my face and said "there, that's full red." It looked more brown to me so I said "uhhhh... thanks, but not that one." He became very irritated and said "well, I have things to do so I have to go in the back." And he left. Eventually I skulked out of the store empty handed. The rest of the day I kept thinking "did I do something wrong?" I used to visit over my lunch hour so I doubt that I was loitering much. Oh well.</p><p><br /></p><p>I didn't go back to the shop for a decade or more. When I finally did return he claimed not to remember me, not that he should, and he instantly became my best friend when I purchased something of fairly decent value. We had a great chat about the coin market, the precious metals market and the state of coin shops in the region. It was awesome. </p><p><br /></p><p>So one apparently never knows what will happen, but definitely don't let dealers push you around if they get irritable or nasty. Looking back, I should have never returned to that shop after the "hello" incident, but it's such a cool shop. It still exists with the same owner. I'm sure I'll go back again, though with a hint of trepidation.[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>
[QUOTE="ewomack, post: 2339024, member: 15588"]I've experienced an absolute continuum of dealer dispositions. From the nicest people I've ever met to the biggest jerks one could ever imagine. Be yourself and gauge whether the dealer is treating you fairly. Some can be a little temperamental, but sometimes it takes a little patience and perseverance. For example, years ago I used to frequent a coin shop near where I worked and I got to know the dealer a little bit. He was impressed that I could read Arabic coins and he didn't believe me when I told him some modern Mexican coins still contain silver, until he looked it up. He once let me hold a 1798 silver dollar and I could finally steal a glance at the edge lettering, which I had never seen in person. So far so good. Later, I entered his shop and he looked at me sternly and said "I saw you on the bus yesterday and I said hello to you but you didn't say hello back. What was that about?" I honestly didn't remember seeing him and so said "I didn't see you" and he snapped back "no, no, you saw me alright." I just apologized and ran out of the store. After a decent amount of time passed, I went back to the store and he greeted me in an extremely friendly manner and so I thought, ok, chock it up to a fluke. Then when I started looking around he said "do you know what you want?" I said I was looking for a full red Lincoln. He opened a book and shoved it in my face and said "there, that's full red." It looked more brown to me so I said "uhhhh... thanks, but not that one." He became very irritated and said "well, I have things to do so I have to go in the back." And he left. Eventually I skulked out of the store empty handed. The rest of the day I kept thinking "did I do something wrong?" I used to visit over my lunch hour so I doubt that I was loitering much. Oh well. I didn't go back to the shop for a decade or more. When I finally did return he claimed not to remember me, not that he should, and he instantly became my best friend when I purchased something of fairly decent value. We had a great chat about the coin market, the precious metals market and the state of coin shops in the region. It was awesome. So one apparently never knows what will happen, but definitely don't let dealers push you around if they get irritable or nasty. Looking back, I should have never returned to that shop after the "hello" incident, but it's such a cool shop. It still exists with the same owner. I'm sure I'll go back again, though with a hint of trepidation.[/QUOTE]
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