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<p>[QUOTE="eddiespin, post: 7984634, member: 4920"]It's getting like we have to give psychological counseling now when we answer questions. I'm not criticizing your reply, I'm criticizing why it's needed. This is an empathetic and understanding reply, and I'll note it got two "likes" to this point, too, but is it really necessary we supplement our advice with psychological counseling, now, or risk getting chewed out for it when we don't? We're coin collectors, not psychologists. For that matter, we're not detectives, either. People come on here with latent psychological problems underlying their questions on their coins, why is it incumbent on us to deal with those, like we're mental health care professionals, or some such things? This has nothing to do with being rude, that's completely different. Rudeness, personal attacks, ill-manners, all deserve to be called out, in whatever the forum. But I'll not wet-nurse anybody, here, and neither will I encourage that type. If a person wants advice on his or her coins, I stand ready to give it to them. If they're so psychologically-fragile they have to fall to pieces or go into an emotional tirade when they're not getting the answers they want, they got a problem, deal with it, and quit bothering us. There's my position. I'll neither encourage, nor welcome that. If anything, I'll recommend they seek mental health counseling, then come back. I'll not spend my time here coaching anybody on those issues, as though I even knew how, because, in my opinion, anyway, it only encourages more, and it doesn't resolve one thing.[/QUOTE]</p><p><br /></p>
[QUOTE="eddiespin, post: 7984634, member: 4920"]It's getting like we have to give psychological counseling now when we answer questions. I'm not criticizing your reply, I'm criticizing why it's needed. This is an empathetic and understanding reply, and I'll note it got two "likes" to this point, too, but is it really necessary we supplement our advice with psychological counseling, now, or risk getting chewed out for it when we don't? We're coin collectors, not psychologists. For that matter, we're not detectives, either. People come on here with latent psychological problems underlying their questions on their coins, why is it incumbent on us to deal with those, like we're mental health care professionals, or some such things? This has nothing to do with being rude, that's completely different. Rudeness, personal attacks, ill-manners, all deserve to be called out, in whatever the forum. But I'll not wet-nurse anybody, here, and neither will I encourage that type. If a person wants advice on his or her coins, I stand ready to give it to them. If they're so psychologically-fragile they have to fall to pieces or go into an emotional tirade when they're not getting the answers they want, they got a problem, deal with it, and quit bothering us. There's my position. I'll neither encourage, nor welcome that. If anything, I'll recommend they seek mental health counseling, then come back. I'll not spend my time here coaching anybody on those issues, as though I even knew how, because, in my opinion, anyway, it only encourages more, and it doesn't resolve one thing.[/QUOTE]
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