Carl, as long as you're enjoying it, it doesn't really matter... I don't worry about making other people happy, nor do I worry about what will happen with my stuff when I'm gone. I've got one life to live, and I'm gonna enjoy as much of it as I can. If I die tomorrow, I won't regret a thing I've ever done. If you're really worried about keeping your collection intact, will it to another numismatist. I think I'd like my collection (that I can find) to be left to my girlfriend, as she seems to have some interest in coins. Either her or my dad, but I think she'd appreciate them more, and I'd like to leave something of mine for her to remember me by. My dad can enjoy all of my electronics, lol.
I think it's probably changed a bit now that I've thought about it for a day or two. I think that I would like to send a fair chump of my collection to some friends on Cointalk. I mean, I've been with you guys for 3 years now, met several of you, bought, sold, traded, and gifted coins back and forth for years now. I've learnt more from this forum than I could have done anywhere else, so I think it would only be fair for some of my coins to find their way to Cointalk friends... You know who you are.