Are there any collectors (yes or no) who you've associated with that you would lend your unlocked home to, along with your collections (if they're in your house that is) and anything else? Or, (on the reverse of the coin, as it were) are there some you may have met or happened to associate with who you wouldn't trust in your neck of the woods or neighborhood as it were; so-to-speak? Again, a simple (yes or no) will suffice. Please no names, etc., unless you're compelled to do so... Take Care Ben
yes to both my dad understands the hobby (from an outside view) so we share room in the cabinet and firebox on the other hand, my mom and brothers are devils to my collection!!
Why? Do you want to come and spend a weekend? Entry fee includes a private class on advaced grading of CBHs by the Bonedigger group. Coins are required and must be supplied by the teachers.
I think this is actually key to the whole question. Not just is there *anybody*, but actual collectors! It is assumed that there should be some form of common trust amongst collectors i a hobby. Obviously, there is very much so warranted mistrust of our collections to people that are not part of the hobby (including spouses for those that aren't lucky enough to have a Canadian coin collecting wife). Yes, there are some collectors that I associate with that I would have no problem leaving my home and collection in their hands, so to speak. The question poses the question also that you would have associated with this collector also. This would include coin clubs, shows, etc. Since most of the collectors in person I have associated with are trustworthy individuals I have relationships with already, I do not think there are any I would not allow near my "unlocked" home or collection. That's not to say that there aren't some non-collectors who have been threatened with very painful retribution if they were ever found in or near my home office and cave, so to speak. Now, if speaking of online "associations", then yes, I would have to say yes to both. But no to physical associations of actual collectors when it comes to anybody I wouldn't trust.
I would leave unlocked and what not, but I would rather not. Here's why. 1. accidents happen (fire,dropping a coin, robot ninja warriors break in tie up friend and take coins etc...) 2. I have a tendency to misplace things or forget I sold/traded them, out for grading etc. And would not want to even think or accuse that they would take my coins, but sometimes the mind acts weird and messes with a person.
there are some I could trust, but I only reserve that kind of trust for those in my inner most circle, which are few and far between and my closest of friends.
I told you before - you are more and welcome to come and visit. Unfortunately, my wife installed a toll both in front of the guest room and it only takes gold coins - preferably gold rupees and anything gold with an Indian Head on it.
As a general rule I trust nobody but family alone in my home...its tough when you have a baby and would like a night out but cant bring yourself to trust anyone in your home alone to babysit.
I would trust many people, but ............. do you remember the link from the other day (I can't find the link) but a guest 'innocently' spent $600,000 in rare coins! so, accidents (or stupidity) can happen.
There are only 2-3 people who I would trust- One would be Shamu- If you know who Im speaking of ,if not then I have already said too much.
Here's the link Frank....originaly form Arizona Jack http://www.cointalk.org/showthread.php?t=39221&highlight=ouch
Sure there are a couple of collectors I would trust because we know each other well , on the other hand theres more I wouldn't trust because I don't know them well enough or know them too well , trust must be earned . rzage
A quick little story. Back on the 5th of this month Steve Herrman, President of the Bust Half Nut Club drove al the way up from Denver to take a look at my set. I got good vibes from him the minute he stepped out of the car and we shook hands. His first words were, "My God, you live WAY out in the country -- thought I'd never find you -- everything is so green..." LOL. He then unpacked all of his reference material and came on into the house. I'd set up a couple of card tables by the large bay window in the living room since he'd said he preferred natural light & a regular lamp, (100 watt light bulb). He immediately sat down and pulled out some of his treasures for me to look at while he was attributing my coins; four 1807s in AU/MS condition including a 'Bearded Goddess' in AU-58, & approximately 30-50 other CBHs in AU-MS shape, about all I could do was gasp... After a few words about his coins and some chit-chat (which were just laying on the table) he got right to work. He checked and attributed until about 6:00 PM (4 hours straight) and then said lets go get a bite to eat. I told him it's be a good long ride into town but if we're gonna head out this was the time. He got up and simply left his coins scattered on the card tables. I asked him if he wanted to box them up, but he said "No, not necessary, I trust you guys" - flashing a big smile. Meaning my wife and youngest daughter who were still at home when we departed... and we left for dinner. Our conversation wandered over several topics including politics, etc., while driving. I was impressed with his candor as he apparently was with mine. Steve said something like "I can tell an honest fellow the minute I meet him..." When we returned about 2.5 hours later, naturally nothing had been moved and all the coins were still where he and I had left them. We then sat down and finished checking the collection about 11:00 PM. For the next hour told me all about the club, had me sign some forms, and write out two checks (one for a half I purchased from his extras and the other for club admission). Steve left about 12:30, after a good 10 hours of coin talk. A very likeable and savvy coin collector definitely with that hidden and honed SIXTH SENSE... Take Care Ben