You guys clearly do not live in the not so great state of New York where everyone loses their guns to boating accidents. Wink wink nudge nudge.
For all the OP knows, the Lady-in-Question could be in front of a screen right now, taking screenshots of this thread to send to her lawyer.
@Otis2u Divorce sucks. One simple question, do you two have kids? If you do, you're going to be dealing with your Ex the rest of your life. Try and be fair and try and negotiate. There will undoubtedly be some raw emotions along the way. Treat your soon to be Ex the way you would like to be treated, and remember at this point it's a business transaction. Get legal advice, but don't necessarily bring the lawyers into the negotiation. They, after all, have a financial interest in getting you to keep fighting. The more you can negotiate without the lawyers involved the better off you are. An adjudicator might help. Fifty percent is a whole lot better than zero percent. Get the things that are most important to you and move on with your life. There are other coins, and for that matter, other women, out there.
I agree completely, My ex's and I settled all our physical property by ourselves. It was always known What was Who's. It was the Kids we had to deal with, for the states sake. I hope that none of the fine Lady's that partake in this fine thread/CT are offended by any of the comments I made. I have had the pleasure of living life on both sides of the fence, One that was vindictive and the one who just wanted a Happy Life. I wish the last would have worked out. We never know just which card, we are gonna be dealt at the end. Could have lived with out the heart ache in the end, but I would do it all over.
Would they flatter your figure, or would you constantly be asking your friends if each dress made your ass look big?
