Wife wants me to "STOP SPENDING SO MUCH ON COINS!!"

Discussion in 'Coin Chat' started by Nathan401, Aug 3, 2016.

  1. Nathan401

    Nathan401 Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?

    Title says it all. :(
     
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  3. chrisild

    chrisild Coin Collector

    Right, collecting coins can get expensive. The same applies to quite a few other things, from traveling to shoes. ;) Have you talked about a monthly (or maybe annual) budget?

    Christian
     
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  4. spirityoda

    spirityoda Coin Junky

    time for a new wife. :hilarious: lol just kidding. :dead: save up for a coin.:greedy:
     
  5. Treashunt

    Treashunt The Other Frank

    Buy coins, sell her
     
  6. cpm9ball

    cpm9ball CANNOT RE-MEMBER

    Watch it, Frank! You're liable to have someone complain that you're driving people away from here.

    Chris
     
  7. Rheingold

    Rheingold Well-Known Member

    You should stop her spending so much on shoes:nailbiting:
     
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  8. paddyman98

    paddyman98 I'm a professional expert in specializing! Supporter

    Listen to her. Your marriage is more important. Lack of proper communication and improper use of monies can cause problems.. Take this good advice from me. I'm divorced!
     
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  9. gronnh20

    gronnh20 Well-Known Member

    Look for coins in your collection you wouldn't mind selling. If she sees a little return it will help calm her concerns.
     
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  10. Clawcoins

    Clawcoins Damaging Coins Daily

    Stop buying a bunch of coins.

    Buyer fewer but at much higher grades
    :)

    It really all comes down to hobbies.
    What hobbies does she have that she spends money on, versus yours.
    Where are monies spent? bar? online? sports? etc

    develop a budget (as mentioned above)
    and make sure you secure any valuables from any hobby.
     
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  11. Numismat

    Numismat World coin enthusiast

    Find a niche where you can buy coins to resell at a profit, and use the profit to buy coins you want to keep. Worked for me with my wife
     
  12. kanga

    kanga 65 Year Collector

    My wife knows (and understands) that my collection can be cashed in for at least part (80-90%) of what I paid.
    Her international vacations only result in pictures and memories which have no cash value.
    I don't begrudge her trips; she doesn't begrudge my coin purchases.

    She'll eventually benefit from my purchases.
    I plan to die with the collection intact and I'm pretty sure that I will be the first to go.
     
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  13. MKent

    MKent Well-Known Member

    Paddy is right happy wife happy life. I'd know I've been married three times. Just give yourself an allowance of some kind that you both can agree too. My wife complains about the paltry amount I spend on coins as well the same goes for guns ammo whatever it's a woman thing we'll never understand em.
     
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  14. Clawcoins

    Clawcoins Damaging Coins Daily

    hope she doesn't have that all planned out lol

    :eek:
     
  15. Dougmeister

    Dougmeister Well-Known Member

    We should start a support group.

    "Hi, my name is Dougmeister, and...
    my wife thinks I spend too much on coins."

    "Hello, Dougmeister."

    I can't even begin what that 12-step program would look like... nor do I want to ;-)
     
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  16. MKent

    MKent Well-Known Member

    Hi, my name is Kent, and my wife thinks
     
  17. Ericred

    Ericred Active Member

    Sounds like you guys have a good understanding in your relationship, good for you two
     
  18. kanga

    kanga 65 Year Collector

    Just had our 47th anniversary so we're doing something right.
     
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  19. MKent

    MKent Well-Known Member

    Congrats sir very admirable in the times we live in.
     
  20. ldhair

    ldhair Clean Supporter

    I let my lady spend what she wants and I do the same. We both know what we can afford and keep it all in balance. We have had over 30 years to practice.
     
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  21. fish4uinmd

    fish4uinmd Well-Known Member

    If your wife is like many wives (or girlfriends), she probably knows everything. So, try convey to her how much money you have saved on a set of encyclopedias.
     
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