What's the ethical thing to do?

Discussion in 'US Coins Forum' started by mikenoodle, May 16, 2013.

  1. GDJMSP

    GDJMSP Numismatist Moderator

    For this situation, I already did.
     
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  3. spock1k

    spock1k King of Hearts

    not this situation but ethics
     
  4. imrich

    imrich Supporter! Supporter

    A Possible Definition Of Ethics!

    I was one of the first to respond with my personal beliefs, contrary to normally applied ethics. It was my application in similar situations, where I had individuals respond to my appreciably greater offered prices for PM commodities. Several brought stellar condition inherited collections, to be sold at a greater price than offered by others. My "ethics" wouldn't allow, for example, accepting Mint State Carson City coins, at generic prices. I hope that my post may also be the termination of a very controversial, contested subject that stimulates the ire of both buyers and sellers.

    Having been very blessed in life with understandings unrecognized by the majority. I've been successful in virtually every endeavor mastered, generally peerless because of simple truths recognition.

    I search for the "simple" axioms/truths of problems, often missed by the majority. Although raised in a very religious environment, attending parochial school, my simple search has created an "Agnostic" understanding, defined thus:
    http://www.thefreedictionary.com/agnostic

    Having studied the "religions", I found that most don't understand the precepts of that which they advocate. This thread has exposed diverse understandings of ethics/morality. I believe all are well intended, as most have moral inclinations. I believe the precepts of all "mutually beneficial" (versus self-serving) religions have basic understandings/laws/commandments/etc. which define
    ethics/morality. Since I'm to understand that the predominate religion in this country is Christianity, I ask consideration of a certain chapter/verse of the Christian New Testament. One, which I believe simplistically defines the basis for ethics et al. The statement is one of "the Christ". He stated in Matthew 7:12, "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets"

    I believe that regardless of your "religion", or lack thereof, whether Satanic to Christian, the aforementioned passage may provide a guide to your personal ethics/morality, explaining diversity in application. I trust that the well meaning will accept diversity and just avoid those incompatible with your acceptability of values.

    Just my "simple" understanding.
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  5. -jeffB

    -jeffB Greshams LEO Supporter

    I agree with this in principle. I'm having trouble figuring out how to apply it in a few specific circumstances, though.

    First, "cherry picking". If I find a bunch of coins being offered at melt+10%, and among them I find a couple of semi-keys worth 2x-3x the asking price, am I ethically obliged to point this out when...

    a) the seller is a grieving widow liquidating her husband's collection? (I'd feel obligated.)
    b) the seller is someone at a flea market who's mostly selling knockoff sunglasses and phone accessories? (I probably wouldn't.)
    c) the seller is a well-respected dealer at a show? (I'd be more likely to start a conversation, thinking maybe I was missing something.)
    d) the seller is listing them on eBay? (I grab them without hesitation; is this unethical?)

    Second, auctions in general. If I see a coin come up for auction, and I think I recognize it as a rare variety that isn't disclosed in the listing, am I ethically obligated to tell the seller about it? Am I ethically obligated to tell the other bidders?

    If the listing is on eBay, what are my obligations? Am I being unethical by sniping, since this lets me withhold information about my valuation of the coin until it's too late for anyone to react to it?
     
  6. Kentucky

    Kentucky Well-Known Member

    The real ethical question, if it is a real MPL, does the dealer tell his partner? I know this is frivolous, but I have been thinking it throughout this entirely serious and meaningful thread.
     
  7. yakpoo

    yakpoo Member

    All excellent questions, but they're a bit divergent from the question posed by the OP. I would say that, in a face-to-face deal, both parties should divulge all information they know (or suspect) about the coin...in advance. Once the deal is concluded, that's it.

    Remember, this is a question of "ethics", not law. If you wander into a flea market and see a $500 VAM in the junk silver pile, how you decide to proceed is entirely a personal matter. The same is true with online auctions, sniping, etc...if you can live with your decision and you're not breaking any laws...there's nothing that says you shouldn't.

    The OP's question was about selling a collection to a trusted Dealer. If I were that Dealer, I would feel obligated to inform the Seller (who probably knows much less about Numismatics than I) that the coin was improperly slabbed. If I didn't discover the slab error until after deal was complete, I would feel my "ethical" duty was complete.

    However, should I go a step further and reopen negotiations with the new information once it's discovered? ...I would like to think I would. If I'm running a reputable business and expect my clients to trust me, I would want to be worthy of that trust.
     
  8. Cazkaboom

    Cazkaboom One for all, all for me.

    Surprises me how Doug isn't "Gonna getcha for that one."
     
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    talkcoin Well-Known Member

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  10. cmilladoo

    cmilladoo Keepin it Real

    Simple my patoot!!! I have yet to see you use a monosyllabic word where it suffices when you can use a much more verbose example from this fine language we call english......also your points are usually very well thought out and far from simple my friend.....but your point is a good one as the golden rule would always apply in a perfect world......and this would be a one page discussion in said world as well....good night all, its getting late.
     
  11. iGradeMS70

    iGradeMS70 AKA BustHalfBrian

    Split the profit. Both sides win this way.

    Don't get greedy ;) An unexpected $2500.00 profit would please most...
     
  12. GDJMSP

    GDJMSP Numismatist Moderator

    For the most part I have stayed out of this discussion other than to quickly voice my opinion because I know from experience that it would serve little purpose to do otherwise. In other words, nothing I say is going to change anybody's mind. But, my opinion is based on several things, and none of them are what if's or maybes.

    But your question, or request if you prefer, begs the question - what are ethics ? Simply put ethics are knowing the difference between right and wrong.

    Well that sounds pretty simple anyway, but as this thread shows us it is anything but simple in the minds of our membership. But the opinions of those members, are in many cases, based on a lot of what if's and maybes. So let's look at it a little differently. Let's determine what we know. This is Mike's (the OP's) basic question -

    Mike also says -

    Here Mike tells us flat out that he doesn't know what the exact situation was at the time of sale. That's fair enough, but he also tells that he (Mike) leans toward the idea that the dealer should have at least suspected that the coin might be an MPL at the time of sale. Even though the coin was slabbed and graded as a business strike.

    But we do not, stress not, know that to be the case. So that idea is still a maybe.

    Now what else do we know ? We know that at some point after the sale, and we don't have any definition of how long after the sale that it happened because Mike never said how long it was that I can recall, Mike was asked by the dealer to give his opinion of the coin and help determine if Mike thought the coin might be an MPL.

    Now this fact all by itself tells us that the dealer was absolutely not certain the coin was an MPL, otherwise he would not be asking Mike for his opinion. It also tells us that the dealer has a good deal of respect for Mike and his knowledge of coins, again otherwise he would not be asking Mike for his opinion.

    This speaks to the point that someone else made in the thread about a coin dealer supposedly being an expert just because he is a coin dealer. Well, I can tell you from personal experience that a great many of coin dealers are most definitely not experts on coins. And this one obviously isn't an expert or he wouldn't be asking a collector for his opinion.

    Then we come to something else, something that I know, personally, and perhaps many of the rest of you do not. I have known Mike for longer (about 12 or 13 years) than just about anybody else on this forum, with 1 or 2 exceptions. I know that Mike is a good man, an honest man, someone I trust. I also know that he has a great deal of knowledge about coins. But before anyone can trust someone, you have to know that person. So perhaps I have an advantage over a lot of you in that I know & trust Mike.

    That said, here is something else we also know. Based on the following -

    - we know that Mike trusted and respected this particular dealer over a long period of time. Otherwise he would not have been a good and long time customer of this particular dealer. And obviously the dealer held reciprocal feelings about Mike as we have seen from above.

    Now I don't know about the rest of you, but because I know Mike, the fact that he trusted and respected this dealer for a long time tells me that dealer deserved to be trusted and respected. That he, the dealer, was a good and honest man who knows right from wrong.

    So I ask you - what changed ? In my mind nothing changed.

    But in Mike's mind, and in the minds of many of the rest of you, this trusted and respected dealer went from being an ethical man to being an unethical man because he said that if the coin turned out to be an MPL that he would not, long after the sale was completed, share any financial benefit with the person he bought the coin from.

    Now I'm sorry, but I just don't understand that. And I like to think that I know the difference between right and wrong, that I know the difference between ethical and unethical.

    For here we have an example of a man, an ethical man, who was trusted and respected over a long period of time, and who had proved to another trusted and respected and man that he was deserving of that trust and respect, turning into an unethical man - based on nothing more than a maybe.

    Why is it, how is it, that years of trust and respect can be thrown out the window because we think that maybe, just maybe, this dealer might have suspected that the coin was an MPL before he completed the purchase.

    If it were me, and I had trusted somebody for many years, then I would be much more inclined to continue that trust and give the dealer the benefit of the doubt and believe that he only came to suspect that the coin might, stress might, be an MPL at some point after the purchase had been completed.

    For my ethics demand of me that I do not throw my trust and respect for someone that was earned over a period of many years out the window because maybe he thought something at the time of purchase.

    But that's me, and that's how I look at ethics.
     
  13. spock1k

    spock1k King of Hearts

    finally grandpa its another hit. btw what you say does change my mind every now and then if I am on a different page to begin with and I can get you to say something. so you cant say it doesn't make a difference to anyone.

    brilliant you now have a whole week off from palace duties and I wont be bothering you :D

    on second thoughts make that 24 hours a week is too long without grandpa :D

    do post a couple of ethical stories when you get a chance that will be an inspiration to us
     
  14. Sliderguy

    Sliderguy Member

    Here we go again. If it is indeed a Matte, the original owner got sacked. I have seen this more over in the past from all of the TPG's.

    I know this hobby can make you a winner but as most know we all lose more than we win. Saying this, a split is the correct thing to do or as lawyerlonegun says, the first person should get the coin back because there was an oral discussion of the possibilities of such coin.

    Be very careful people, do your homework. All dealers are not trustworthy, find one that will go the extra step for you.
     
  15. 19Lyds

    19Lyds Member of the United States of Confusion

    Now about: (Ooops.....I meant How about?)

    "Know what you are selling before you sell it."

    I have a certain knowledge about Eisenhower Dollars and I also know that "Most" coin dealers do not. They can tell the difference between a silver and a CnClad (well...most can) and they know the difference between a proof and a business strike. Again....Most can. But the line stops there.

    As such, I document what I have so then when I finally Kick that Bucket, my heirs will have a least some inkling of what "they" have since I know that a random coin dealer, trusted or not, won't.

    As for the subject coin, a "time line" would be most helpful. I haven;t read that last couple of pages, but did Mr. Noodle "know" who the seller was? Did he "observe" the transaction of was he simply told about the transaction when the dealer asked him for his opinion?
     
  16. cmilladoo

    cmilladoo Keepin it Real

    your hears huh.......heir's?
     
  17. Kasia

    Kasia Got my learning hat on

    at least he knows it starts with 'h'. he could have spelled it airs. or errs. :p
     
  18. 19Lyds

    19Lyds Member of the United States of Confusion

    Dang! smack.gif
     
  19. mikenoodle

    mikenoodle The Village Idiot Supporter

    I only learned of the coin after the dealer had purchased it. In a prior post we had said that the ethics hinge on when the dealer suspected that the coin could be a MPL. If he only discovered it after he had made the purchase, things are far different than if he suspected at the time of purchase.

    I'm still snickering at you calling me "Mr. Noodle", Lee... It sounds like my Dad or something. ;)
     
  20. Cazkaboom

    Cazkaboom One for all, all for me.

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  21. 19Lyds

    19Lyds Member of the United States of Confusion

    LOL! Hey you deserve the respect!
    Besides, I'm probably old enough to be your Dad.



    No wait...........you and Doug are buddies so maybe not.
     
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