And where is your proof we were not wronged? Is this a jury trial? Why are you upset to this level over a post on a website? Why are you so trusting in strange businesses but so ready to accuse a stranger? The anger, accusations and hostility over this is overwhelming. Where is your proof that the OP is lying, or an idiot? What is your authority for demanding proof? While we are at it, why dont you define proof? The poor man had a problem and gets attacked. Classy. And sooo gracious of you all.
Its hostility to attack someone who asks for help with a problem. English seems like it might be his 2nd language so its possibly racist too. You all went after him like defense attorneys for a rapist. Attacking the victim. Same with me. And I KNOW they dealt dishonestly. Any system like that has to be transparent to protect both parties. Anything else is dishonorable and suspicious. Your rabid defense of it, and unreasoning attacks on the OP, howling for "proof" are mind boggling. Just wow! Where is your proof that he is lying? That it didnt happen? You are all so sure he is lying you must have proof? Right? Lets see it. Pictures too. Something we can howl over and accuse you of lying about. Just because. The hypocrisy reeks
TPG's and auction houses are innocent until proven guilty. You are the accuser, its up to you to provide the evidence of wrong doing. So far you are batting zero! Ante up!
Correct. They have no evidence of any wrong doing. Just folks that don't know what they are doing and want to blame others for what they do not understand.
Come on! The hypocrisy reeks in here. The OP posted his pics, and you were not satisfied. You attacked him. He had more proof of dirty dealing than you have for attacking him. Show your own proof. Annnnnnddd, I will say this slow using simple words, my whole point was that they never sent me proof. Or verification. Or links or photos! Duh! The bunch of you claim to be coin collectors, so I am assuming you are capable of basic math, and just cant be this stupid. So, if we eliminate stupidity, it comes down to just plain mean Does your mother know?
Sorry, I'm having some trouble keeping up here. Which "race" is it that speaks English as a second language, again?
So instead we're supposed to presume the worst of the TPGs and impugn their motives, presuming the worst, while defending... random CoinTalk posters. Got it.
Knock off the straw man argument crap. An established business that relies on their reputation to generate business isn't going to be stealing $100 coins as part of their business plan. And you want proof that statement is true? Really? Did your contract with the auction house require them to send you proof, or verification, or links, or photos? That should be very easy for you to ascertain. That would be proof. Whining about it is not proof. Should they have contacted you? IMO yes, but we're they obligated? If you did your homework before consigning you would know this. But it sounds like you didn't do due diligence and got burned. I'm still guessing that you authorized the auction house to send the coins out to a TPG and they came back lower than you thought. Nobody is attacking you for making a dumb mistake. We 've all done that. The criticism is for trying to blame your mistakes on others without a modicum of proof. Just a "here's my story. Trust me".
Explain to me how you got there from here? All you had to do was be a little gracious, like your momma taught you. Its not a jury trial. You are not the prosecuting attorney. Heck, I never looked at his photos or read through all his posts because it just doesnt matter. In my case, it happened exactly as stated. There is no defending sharp business practices. But thats what you are doing. How is attacking, accusing and mocking the OP any different from "presuming the worst of the TPG's and impugn their motives?" I dont see a difference, but open to an explanation. Its a shocking display of hostility for no apparent reason. There is simply no need for it. Rather than lower yourself, you all could have just ignored him. Like I said. Not stupid. Just mean.
There were no attacks. There were questions, which went unanswered. I don't think that word means what you think it means.
Well, Clarence Darrow, quite a bit of speculation there eh? And your proof is? What exactly? We are holding our breath waiting. Its mind boggling you can talk that way and not see yourself in that mirror. All you have to go on is my post. There is no proof of anything. Yet you speculate out of smoke and mirrors that I am lying because I am disappointed? Seriously? Without blushing? Where is YOUR proof? Heck, where is even reasonable suspicion? Fingerprints? Witnesses? I just cannot imagine what motivates, and blinds you. I wont judge the OP. But my experience indicates its entirely possible. And no, it was not $50-$100 it was thousands. Which I clearly indicated. But you are so invested in putting me down, you have to deliberately mischaracterize me and my situation. Just amazing.
My momma, rest her soul, didn't really teach me to be gracious to people making unsupported accusations against others, especially when those accusations were potentially damaging to the accused and cost the accuser nothing. Not even if those "others" were Big Faceless Corporations, and the accusers were right there in the same room. She did teach me to think critically about surprising claims. And logical fallacies ("if you criticize someone who has weak English skills, maybe it's because you're racist").
Oh yes it does. We have scads of people who blame racism for every disappointment in life. Its become an industry. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander too. He might be a lifetime citizen and just have weak communication skills. But whatever the reason, he should have been treated with more grace and patience. Instead, he was driven away. I have seen this in other threads here over the years. Ok, so newbies ask the same questions over and over. Or some threads come up again and again. But there is no requirement to even reply at all. Even less to attack, question the persons integrity and drive them away. I guess I naturally defend the underdog, but I just dont get mean for the sake of mean.
The more you fill the feed bin the more the trolls come to pasture. Trying to actually use facts is a losing battle of filling the troll troft
Nowadays, racism is called for far less reason than that. Politicians claim after two terms in office won by national election. I said it because its possible given the unreasoning attacks How is it you are allowed to presume all kinds of bad things about the poor man, and attack him, but he is a fat rat for feeling he was cheated? Why are you righteous for doing exactly what you accuse him of? Did he even name the company? You did the same with me, and I did nothing wrong. No ill intent. So, when you presume the worst in another, with no evidence but your feelings, isnt that the definition of racism? How can you not see yourself? By my experience, it is entirely possible that you could be cheated. Given the process, its easy, and even though I researched, prepared and thought I defended myself, I was still defrauded. The process should be transparent for all. But I am wasting my time. You have some sort of emotional investment in this that defies reasoning. All anyone had to do was be gracious. The OP did nothing wrong. Nor did I. And, to presume the worst in another, both him and myself, may not be racism specifically, but its the same thing. Given the choice of being mean, being mind or just being quiet, I just cant fathom why anyone chooses mean.